International Multicultural Night 2009


Our campus (UUM) will launch one of big event in Tradewins residential hall which is International Multicultural night. This even started last year and many visitors come and see to know and understand each countries culture in our campus.

This time our International Multicultural Night will come with theme “Culture Fever” which means everybody should interest with culture differentiations in UUM campus generally. For Information, many international students in UUM, they are from:


1. Indonesia
2. Somalia
3. Somaliland
4. Chad
5. Saudi
6. Yemen
7. Thailand
8. Canada
9. Uzbekistan
10. Nigeria
11. France, and so on.

Most of them are from Somalia and Indonesia.

In this event there are some activities such as singing, dancing, martial arts and also foods from each countries involved here. Singing will be performed by Chinese student and also somalian student whereas martial arts will be from Indonesia (Pencak Silat). And also in this event Indonesia will prepare gado-gado and lontong to be provided then sphagethi with soghart as somalian traditional foods also will be available.

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Duka-Citaku untuk Indonesia


Tidak pernah absen rasa-rasanya musibah dan bencana yang melanda tanah air kita, tangisan itu, rintihan itu, sudah menjadi hal yang biasa di Indonesia. Memang secara geografis Negara kita berada dipatahan lempeng Asia dan Australia yang berarti gempa dapat datang kapan saja sekehendak dia. Belum ditambah jika lokasi gempa berada di kedalaman laut dan berkekuatan lebih dari 6,8 skala richter, Tsunami bisa jadi akan kembali menghantam dataran Zambrut khatulistiwa ini.

Baru-baru ini bangsa kita kembali dipukul dengan gempa berpotensi tsunami yang berpusat di Tasikmalaya, Jawa Barat. Saat itu masyarakat setempat hanya bisa meratapi seraya menangis kehilangan sanak saudara dan harta yang selama ini digunakan sebagai penghidupan keluarga. Bisakah anda bayangkan?
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KISAH ISTRI YANG KECANDUAN CHATTING

Pada postingan kali ini saya mau berbagi-bagi nasihat kepada temen-teman blogger ku sesama muslim khususnya orang indonesia atau yg faham bahasa indonesia (karena artikel ini menggunakan bahasa indonesia).

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karena sesungguhnya agama ini adalah nasihat.

kisah ini saya ambil dari Rumasyo

semoga kita dapat memetik faedah dari kisah ini.
berikut kisahnya:


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Kisah Bincang-bincang Seorang Istri di Dunia Maya (Sumber: Jilbab.or.id)
Kisah ini terjadi di Lebanon berdasarkan apa yang saya dengar lewat kajian bersama ustadz di majelis ilmu syar’I … Ustadz menguraikan kisah ini agar bisa menjadi perhatian bagi muslimah di sini (Sydney) agar mereka berhati-hati terhadap chatting ini dan tidak melayani sapaan dari laki-laki yang suka iseng menggoda lewat chatting ini…

Beliau adalah seorang wanita muslimah yang alhamdulillah Allah karuniakan kepadanya seorang suami yang baik akhlak dan budi pekertinya. Di rumah ia pun memilki komputer sebagaimana keluarga muslim lainnya di mana komputer bukan lagi merupakan barang mewah di Lebanon. Sang suami pun mengajari bagaimana menggunakan fasilitas ini yang akhirnya ia pun mahir bermain internet. Yang akhirnya ia pun mahir pula chatting dengan kawan-kawanya sesama muslimah.

Awalnya ia hanya chatting dengan rekannya sesama muslimah, … hingga pada suatu hari ia disapa oleh seorang laki-laki yang mengaku sama-sama tinggal dikota beliau.Terkesan dengan gaya tulisannya yang enak dibaca dan terkesan ramah. Sang muslimah yang telah bersuami ini akhirnya tergoda pada lelaki tersebut.

Bila sang suami sibuk bekerja untuk mengisi kekosongan waktunya, ia akhirnya menghabiskan waktu bersama dengan lelaki itu lewat chatting, … sampai sang suami menegurnya setiba dari kerja mengapa ia tetap sibuk di internet. Sang istri pun membalas bahwa ia merasa bosan karena suaminya selalu sibuk bekerja dan ia merasa kesepian, … ia merahasiakan dengan siapa ia chatting .. khawatir bila suaminya tahu maka ia akan dilarang main internet lagi…. Sungguh ia telah kecanduan berchatting ria dengan lelaki tersebut.

Fitnah pun semakin terjadi di dalam hatinya, .. ia melihat sosok suaminya sungguh jauh berbeda dengan lelaki tersebut, enak diajak berkomunikasi, senang bercanda dan sejuta keindahan lainnya di mana setan telah mengukir begitu indah di dalam lubuk hatinya.
Duhai fitnah asmara semakin membara, … ketika ia chatting lagi sang laki-laki itu pun tambah menggodanya, .. ia pun ingin bertemu empat mata dengannya. Gembiralah hatinya, .. ia pun memenuhi keinginan lelaki tersebut untuk berjumpa. Jadilah mereka berjumpa dalam sebuah restoran, lewat pembiacaran via darat mereka jadi lebih akrab. Dari pertemuan itu akhirnya dilanjutkan dengan pertemuan berikutnya.
Hingga akhirnya si lelaki tersebut telah berhasil menawan hatinya. Sang suami yang menasehati agar ia tidak lama-lama main internet tidak digubrisnya.

Akhirnya suami wanita ini menjual komputer tersebut karena kesal nasehatnya tidak di dengar, lalu apa yang terjadi ?? Langkah itu (menjual komputer) membuat marah sang istri yang akhirnya ia pun meminta cerai dari suaminya. Sungguh ia masih teringat percakapan manis dengan laki-laki tersebut yang menyatakan bahwa ia sangatlah mencintai dirinya, dan ia berjanji akan menikahinya apabila ia bercerai dari suaminya.

Sang suami yang sangat mencintai istrinya tersebut tentu saja menolak keputusan cerai itu. Karena terus didesak sang istri akhirnya ia pun dengan berat hati menceraikan istrinya. Sungguh betapa hebatnya fitnah lelaki itu. Singkatnya setelah ia selesai cerai dengan suaminya ia pun menemui lelaki tersebut dan memberitahukan kabar gembira tentang statusnya sekarang yang telah menjadi janda. Lalu apakah si lelaki itu mau menikahinya sebagaimana janjinya???

Ya ukhti muslimah dengarlah penuturan kisah tragis ini, … dengan tegasnya si lelaki itu berkata,

“Tidak!! Aku tidak mau menikahimu! Aku hanya mengujimu sejauh mana engkau mencintai suamimu,ternyata engkau hanyalah seorang wanita yang tidak setia kepada suami. Dan, aku takut bila aku menikahimu nantinya engkau tidak akan setia kepadaku! Bukan ,..bukan..wanita sepertimu yang aku cari, aku mendambakan seorang istri yang setia dan taat kepada suaminya..!”

Lalu ia pun berdiri meninggalkan wanita ini, .. sang wanita dengan isak tangis yang tidak tertahan inipun akhirnya menemui ustadz tadi dan menceritakan Kisahnya…. Ia pun merasa malu untuk meminta rujuk kembali dengan suaminya yang dulu … mengingat betapa buruknya dia melayani suaminya dan telah menjadi istri yang tidak setia.
[Berakhir nukilan dari http://jilbab.or.id/archives/403-bercerai-dari-suami-akibat-kecanduan-chatting/ ]

Jika seseorang betul-betul merenungkan kisah di atas, tentu saja dia akan menggali beberapa pelajaran berharga. Itulah di antara bahaya chatting dengan lawan jenis yang tidak mengenal adab dalam bergaul. Lihatlah akibat chatting dengan lawan jenis, di sana bisa terjadi perceraian antara kedua pasangan tersebut disebabkan si istri memiliki hubungan dengan pria kenalannya di dunia maya.

Di pelajaran lainnya adalah hendaknya selalu ada pengawasan dari kepala keluarga terhadap anggota keluarganya. Kepala keluarga seharusnya dapat memberikan batasan terhadap pergaulan anggota keluarganya termasuk istrinya, apalagi dalam masalah penggunaan internet. Inilah pelajaran yang mesti diperhatikan oleh seorang suami sebagai kepala keluarga.

Adapun untuk anggota keluarga yaitu istri dan anak, hendaklah mereka selalu merasa mendapatkan pengawasan dari Allah subahanahu wa ta’ala. Hendaklah mereka meyakini bahwa Allah Ta’ala mengetahui segala yang nampak maupun yang tersembunyi. Sehingga Allah mengetahui segala apa yang mereka lakukan. Karena Allah-lah Maha Mengetahui dan Maha Melihat dengan sifat kesempurnaan. Tentu saja sikap selalu merasa penjagaan dari Allah ini bisa muncul jika seseorang telah dibekali dengan aqidah dan tauhid yang benar. Itulah pentingnya pendidikan aqidah pada keluarga.

Selain itu pula, istri mesti diluruskan tatkala dia berada dalam kekeliruan. Istri mesti diluruskan dengan lemah lembut dan harus berhati-hati dalam menasehatinya. Rasulullah shallallahu ’alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

ُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا ، فَإِنَّهُنَّ خُلِقْنَ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ ، وَإِنَّ أَعْوَجَ شَىْءٍ فِى الضِّلَعِ أَعْلاَهُ ، فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهُ كَسَرْتَهُ ، وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهُ لَمْ يَزَلْ أَعْوَجَ فَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا

"Bersikaplah yang baik terhadap wanita karena sesungguhnya mereka diciptakan dari tulang rusuk.Bagian yang paling bengkok dari tulang rusuk tersebut adalah bagian atasnya. Jika engkau memaksa untuk meluruskan tulang rusuk tadi, maka dia akan patah. Namun, jika kamu membiarkan wanita, ia akan selalu bengkok, maka bersikaplah yang baik terhadap wanita." (HR. Bukhari no. 5184)

Juga perlu diketahui bahwa kerusakan yang terjadi akibat chatting di atas bukanlah bisa terjadi hanya pada wanita. Kerusakan semacam itu pun sebenarnya dapat terjadi pada laki-laki. Oleh karena itu, perlu sekali diberitahukan kepada pembaca sekalian beberapa adab-adab yang mesti diperhatikan ketika bergaul dengan lawan jenis. Karena tidak memperhatikan beberapa adab berikut inilah terjadi keretakan rumah tangga atau mungkin bagi yang belum menikah pun bisa terjadi kerusakan dengan terjerumus dalam perantara-perantara menuju zina atau bahkan bisa terjerumus dalam zina. Na’udzu billahi min dzalik.

Beberapa Adab yang Mesti Diperhatikan dalam Pergaulan dengan Lawan Jenis (Yang Bukan Mahrom)

Pertama, menjauhi segala sarana menuju zina

Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا الزِّنَا إِنَّهُ كَانَ فَاحِشَةً وَسَاءَ سَبِيلًا

“Dan janganlah kamu mendekati zina; sesungguhnya zina itu adalah suatu perbuatan yang keji. Dan suatu jalan yang buruk.”(QS. Al Isro’ [17] : 32)

Kedua, selalu menutup aurat

Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ قُلْ لِأَزْوَاجِكَ وَبَنَاتِكَ وَنِسَاءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يُدْنِينَ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنْ جَلَابِيبِهِنَّ ذَلِكَ أَدْنَى أَنْ يُعْرَفْنَ فَلَا يُؤْذَيْنَ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ غَفُورًا رَحِيمًا

“Hai Nabi, katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mu'min: "Hendaklah mereka mengulurkan jilbabnya ke seluruh tubuh mereka". Yang demikian itu supaya mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenal, karena itu mereka tidak di ganggu. Dan Allah adalah Maha Pengampun lagi Maha Penyayang. (QS. Al Ahzab [33] : 59)

Ketiga, saling menundukkan pandangan

Allah memerintahkan kaum muslimin untuk menundukkan pandangan ketika melihat lawan jenis. Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

قُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ

“Katakanlah kepada laki – laki yang beriman :”Hendaklah mereka menundukkan pandangannya dan memelihara kemaluannya.” (QS. An Nuur [24] : 30 )

Dalam lanjutan ayat ini, Allah juga berfirman,

وَقُلْ لِلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ

“Katakanlah kepada wanita-wanita yang beriman : "Hendaklah mereka menundukkan pandangannya, dan kemaluannya” (QS. An Nuur [24] : 31)

Keempat, tidak berdua-duaan dengan lawan jenis

Dari Ibnu Abbas, Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

لاَ يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِامْرَأَةٍ إِلاَّ مَعَ ذِى مَحْرَمٍ

“Janganlah seorang laki-laki berduaan dengan seorang wanita kecuali jika bersama mahromnya.” (HR. Bukhari, no. 5233)

Kelima, menghindari bersentuhan dengan lawan jenis

Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu , Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

كُتِبَ عَلَى ابْنِ آدَمَ نَصِيبُهُ مِنَ الزِّنَى مُدْرِكٌ ذَلِكَ لاَ مَحَالَةَ فَالْعَيْنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا النَّظَرُ وَالأُذُنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا الاِسْتِمَاعُ وَاللِّسَانُ زِنَاهُ الْكَلاَمُ وَالْيَدُ زِنَاهَا الْبَطْشُ وَالرِّجْلُ زِنَاهَا الْخُطَا وَالْقَلْبُ يَهْوَى وَيَتَمَنَّى وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ وَيُكَذِّبُهُ


“Setiap anak Adam telah ditakdirkan bagian untuk berzina dan ini suatu yang pasti terjadi, tidak bisa tidak. Zina kedua mata adalah dengan melihat. Zina kedua telinga dengan mendengar. Zina lisan adalah dengan berbicara. Zina tangan adalah dengan meraba (menyentuh). Zina kaki adalah dengan melangkah. Zina hati adalah dengan menginginkan dan berangan-angan. Lalu kemaluanlah yang nanti akan membenarkan atau mengingkari yang demikian.”
(HR. Muslim no. 6925)

Keenam, tidak melembutkan suara di hadapan lawan jenis

Allah Ta’ala berfirman,

يَا نِسَاءَ النَّبِيِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ إِنِ اتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلا مَعْرُوفًا

“Hai istri-istri Nabi, kamu sekalian tidaklah seperti wanita yang lain, jika kamu bertakwa. Maka janganlah kamu melembutkan pembicaraan sehingga berkeinginanlah orang yang ada penyakit (syahwat) dalam hatinya, dan ucapkanlah perkataan yang baik.” (QS. Al Ahzab: 32).

Perintah ini berlaku bukan hanya untuk istri-istri Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, namun juga berlaku untuk wanita muslimah lainnya.

Lalu bagaimana dengan adab chatting dengan lawan jenis? Hal ini dapat pula kita samakan dengan telepon, SMS, pertemanan di friendster dan pertemanan di facebook

Jawabnya adalah sama atau hampir sama dengan adab-adab di atas.

>Pertama, jauhilah segala sarana menuju zina melalui pandangan, sentuhan dan berdua-duaan dengan lawan jenis yang bukan mahrom.

>Kedua, tutuplah aurat di hadapan bukan mahrom.
Sehingga seorang muslimah tidak menampakkan perhiasan yang sebenarnya hanya boleh ditampakkan di hadapan suami.

Contoh yang tidak beradab seperti ini adalah berbusana tanpa jilbab atau bahkan dengan busana yang hakekatnya telanjang. Inilah yang banyak kita saksikan di beberapa foto profil di FB atau friendster.
Semoga Allah memberi taufik dan hidayah kepada mereka.

>Ketiga, tundukkanlah pandangan.

Bagaimana mungkin bisa saling menundukkan pandangan jika masing-masing orang memajang foto di hadapan lawan jenisnya? Wanita memamerkan fotonya di hadapan pria. Mungkinkah di sini bisa saling menundukkan pandangan? Oleh karena itu, alangkah baiknya jika foto profil kita bukanlah foto kita, namun dengan foto yang lain yang bukan gambar makhluk bernyawa.

Tujuannya adalah agar foto wanita tidak membuat fitnah (godaan) bagi laki-laki, begitu pula sebaliknya. Di antara bentuk menundukkan pandangan adalah janganlah menggunakan webcamp selain dengan sesama jenis saja ketika ingin melakukan obrolan di dunia maya.

>Keempat, hati-hatilah dengan berdua-duaan bersama lawan jenis yang bukan mahrom.

Jika seorang pria dan wanita melakukan pembicaraan via chatting, telepon atau sms –tanpa ada hajat (keperluan)-, itu sebenarnya adalah semi kholwat (semi berdua-duaan). Apalagi jika di dalamnya disertai dengan kata-kata mesra dan penuh godaan sehingga membangkitkan nafsu birahi. Dan jika memang ada pembicaraan yang dirasa perlu antara pria dan wanita yang bukan mahrom, maka itu hanya seperlunya saja dan sesuai kebutuhan. Jika tidak ada kebutuhan lagi, maka pembicaraan tersebut seharusnya dijauhi agar tidak terjadi sesuatu yang bisa menjurus pada yang haram.

>Kelima, janganlah melembutkan atau mendayu-dayukan suara atau kata-kata di hadapan lawan jenis.

Penyimpangan dalam adab terakhir ini, kalau diterapkan dalam obrolan chatting adalah dengan kata-kata yang lembut atau mendayu-dayu dari wanita yang menimbulkan godaan pada pria. Contoh menggunakan kata-kata yang sebenarnya layak untuk suami istri seperti “sayang”, dsb.


Jika setiap muslim mengindahkan adab-adab di atas, maka tentu saja dia tidak akan terjerumus dalam perbuatan dosa dan tidak akan mengalami hal yang serupa dengan kisah di atas dengan izin Allah.

Kami ingatkan pula bahwa tulisan ini bukanlah hanya kami tujukan kepada kaum hawa saja, namun kami juga tujukan pada para pria agar mereka juga memperhatikan adab-adab di atas. Jadi janganlah tulisan ini dijadikan sebagai sarana untuk memojokkan wanita atau para istri, namun hendaklah dijadikan nasehat untuk bersama.
Semoga Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala memberikan sifat ketakwaan, memberi kita petunjuk dan kecukupan. Semoga Allah melindungi dan menjaga keluarga kita dari hal-hal yang haram dan mendatangkan murka Allah. Semoga risalah ini dapat bermanfaat bagi kaum muslimin. Wa shallallahu wa sallamu ‘ala nabiyyina Muhammad wa ‘ala alihi wa shahbihi ajma’in. Walhamdulillahir rabbil ‘alamin.
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Panggang, Gunung Kidul, 10 Sya’ban 1430 H
Penulis: Muhammad Abduh Tuasikal
Artikel http://rumaysho.com

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RI-Malingsia Bridge…. The World's Longest Bridge will be…!!



May be some of you already know about this. Relationship between Indonesia and Malingsia is not good today but both Indonesian and Malingsian governments plan to build a bridge which is going to link their countries. just for info you should go here : Jual Beli Paypal

This bridge will connect Malacca (Malingsia) and Dumai (Sumatera).



Surely this project will impact to profit both countries and also can faster social economic development between Indonesia and Malingsia.

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According to Najib statement (Malaysian Prime Minister) this bridge will cost at least $11 billion or Rp6 trillion.












For now both countries are looking for some foreign investors to donate this project.

Summary

Name : RI-Malingsia Bridge
Length : 52 km
Contributor : In process
Place : Malacca strait
Connect : Malacca (Malingsia) to Rupat Island (Sumatera) to Dumai (Sumatera)
Cost : $11 million = Rp. 6 trillion








Should RI accept this project against Malingsia????

Will this bridge claimed one-side further by Malingsia????





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Burj Al Meel, Jeddah Super tall Skyscraper

Actually I really impressed if one talk about “the world tallest building”. Former we discussed Jakarta Tower, Indonesian next prestige and now we are discussing Burj Al Meel which will be the tallest building ever happened in the world.

Might be this building is constructed to keep esteem against Arab countries.
I can say that because presently almost all Arab countries tried to build their own tallest building. There are two buildings existed today, they are Mubarak tower (1001 m) in Kuwait and Burj Dubai(818 m) in UAE.

Perhaps development of Burj Al meel was based on the “prestige” against Arab countries.

This building named Burj Al Meel which signifies -1 mil high- building (1600 m). So, like the name, this building is going to be built by 1 mil upwards.

This project was donated by Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Alsaud of Kingdom Holding Co, from Saudi Arabia. It cost US$10 Billion.

Some uniqueness of this building are about temperature and “quake” problems will be faced further. Feasibility, the top will be baking during the day, and freezing at night. Gust can make people inside building fell “seasick”.






Another problem arising is transportation. I think developer should consider the most suitable transportation to be used from basement to the top and reverse.
This is summary information about this super skyscraper:


Name : Burj Al Meel
Developer : Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Alsaud of Kingdom Holding Co
Place : Jeddah, Saudi Arabia
Height : 1 mil (1600 meters)
Budget : US$ 10 Billion
Problems : Temperature, wind’s blowing/gust, transportation.



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CAN MONEY BUY HAPPINESS?


My lecturer said only money can make us happy. Without money one can’t be happy,
Can you see children reap rubbish in a dust bin? Do you think that poor people will be happy in that condition?
I am sure they were not got education well!
They can’t buy what they want, even for survive they can’t. Let’s think if you are a rich man, you have much money so that you will educate well, something that you want will be real soon.
So, which one are happier? The man without money or the man who gone around with much money? just for info you should go here : Jual Beli Paypal




I think most of you will have the same perspective with my lecturer. Actually, money is one of many factors that can measure happiness. Without money may be you are nothing! Nobody want to care about you, people will see you by one eye side. But it is not the only factor that can measure that.

There are several factors can measure the happiness beside money, such as family and health.

For me they are the most important factors can measure happiness. In advanced I already talked about poor people with no education work in the dump bin. In our eyes we can say they are not happy.

But possibly they are the happiest people in this world. Who knows?

Someone that you thought happy with much money might be the unhappiest person in the world. For instance, he has much money so he can buy every tasty food he wants.
Yet, he is not healthy well, cholesterol, high blood pressure, and many diseases gather in his body. Ultimately he can’t receive those tasty foods.
He just consumes soybean curds (tahu) and fermented soy cake (tempe).

What a pitiful guyz!

Another example, he (those who have much money) lives with one wife and 3 children. His wife is a very finicky woman, she always requests a very expensive and up to date jewelry every week. If he can’t fulfill what she wants then they fight inside home. And it will occur every week. Do you think he can happy?

Again, what a pitiful guyz!

So I think money can not measure happiness at all.

What do you think try this Forex Indicator?


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What Exactly “Indon” means?

I heard from my friend in Indonesia that “indon” (citation in Malaysia) is a humiliate title for Indonesian.

He said basically that citation is used for TKI (Indonesian Household Servant), means that it sounds insulting our nation.

Truly, before I went to Malaysia I also angry if Malaysian calls Indonesian as “indon”, because in my mind it has a negative meaning albeit I didn’t know what the reason was.

Later on when I was in Malaysia, I did an observations to find out why Malaysian say indon to Indonesian. And now from my observations I know that indon is just an easy citation for Indonesia. Moreover Malaysian calls me (with Indon) smile and friendly.

Despite some Malaysian said indon is for underestimated Indonesian.


So in this case, I conclude that about 20% Malaysian they say indon for underestimated Indonesian whereby the rest (80%) say indon because it is just an easy way to denominate Indonesian.

For example: some people say “nigger” to all African, not intends to underestimate but it just a nickname.

Actually, Indonesian it self call Dutch with “londo” (Negative meaning), and call Malaysian with Malay, Orang Melayu or Malingsia.

In fact, Malaysian disfavor to those citations (based on my observations)as Londo.


Those examples are just for analogy.

Then now I need your opinion. Does the word “Indon” proper to indicate Indonesian? Whereas Indonesian it self do the same thing to the other nations.

I state here, if the word Indon has a negative meaning to me/us as an Indonesian, why many Indonesian in Malaysia feel fine with that citation? Are they frightened because they are just a minor here? Or have they already realized that term indon is just an easy way to call Indonesian?

I don’t know.

Finally I say. For me it doesn’t matter for any other nations in this world call me as Indon or whatever, if only it is not accompanied with humiliating.



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DOWNLOAD NOTES (SLIDES) AND SECTIONS UL 2023 / BUSINESS LAW (UPDATE!!!!!)

This is for you all UUM students who take UL 2023.

In order to help you study, I already uploaded all notes in my blog.
you can download notes/ slides of Business Law (UL 2023) here.

Study hard!!!!

CHAPTER 1 & 2
- OFFER AND ACCEPTANCE
- OFFER AND ACCEPTANCE 2

CHAPTER 3
- CONSIDERATION

CHAPTER 4

- CAPACITY, ITCLR, CERTAINTY

CHAPTER 5
- VOID UNLAWFUL

CHAPTER 6
- ILLEGAL UNLAWFUL CONTRACT

CHAPTER 7
- LAW OF AGENCY

CHAPTER 8
- SALE OF GOODS
- SALE OF GOODS 2

CHAPTER 10
- HIRE PURCHASE

CHAPTER 11
- NEGOTIABLE INSTRUMENT

CHAPTER 12
- CHEQUES


if you want to have sections summary please clik link below:









DO YOUR BEST!

regrads Prof.AbuBakar



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OSBP AWARDS!!!!




Horeee....im very proud of this award because it's originally from the source, Mr ferie-id.com. Thank you Mr Ferie!! :D

OSBP is Open Source Blog Post, meaning that you're giving some permissions to all blogger to copy your articles but still should add the link in which articles you copied.




Advantages in joining OSBP:

> both parties will be profited, because authors who copied your article will get an advantage form an inspiration. And the one in which his/her articles being copied will gain some advantages such as blog high traffic, because when your articles being copied, your link was added to the blog that copied your articles.

> to establish the law of blogging that haven't established before. So hopefully there is no annoyed feeling when your articles being copied.

To join into OSBP you just add/install link(banner) below into your blog,






It is easy isn't it ?

So, based on the "rules of game" i must distribute this award to another my friends.
but previously, blogger who received this award also must follow certain regulation, they are:

1. Made a post like this (you can copy this article or make your own)
2. Must add banner above to your site.
3. PLease add my Link to your site/blog

Mmm,, kalo pada kaga ngerti silahkan mengacu pada artikel empunya, disini :D

This is registered award receiver:

1. Mbah Cyber
2. Juwita
3. suriya-aceh
4. netmild
5. you are the next...
6. you are the next...
7. you are the next...

Who wants to be the next....??

If so, please comment here then this award will belongs to you :)


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I GOT A PROBLEM, HELP ME PLEASE....

Yesterday when i looked at my blog i saw something different.
i scroll the mouse down...

OH MY GOD...!!

What the hell happened??!



all my friend links gone!!
i dont know why it can happen....

So please after this, for those bloggers who already linked my blog at yours to confirm me by a comment below.

then i will link yours back..

i am so sorry, it was only technical problems.

-admin-




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Friendship Award



Ramadhan Ya Mubarrak...
this month i got many award :D
and this one i got from vie-three, thanks ya :)


as the rule, i must distribute it to other friends.
and they are:

1. Mbah cyber
2. Arsitek vernakular NTT
3. Untrendy Monkey
4. new-ones
5. idup cuma bentar

6. dinni
7. ikro

How to take it?


a. Make a short posting about this award.
b. Insert giver's name and link
c. Give it to other another blogger and put this link:

- tips and trik
- vitri
- i am just a student
- 1st person that you give (orang pertama yg mendapat award ini)

Please Receive it :D





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JAKARTA TOWER , OUR NEXT PRESTIGE..!!!


Until today, I don’t know why many countries having races to build tallest building or tower. Formerly, we knew WTC (World Trade Center) which finally attacked by someone insane, haha..

After it collapse, Twin Tower in Malaysia (usually called Petronas) became the world’s tallest building.

But it was not long live exist. Some year after Taiwan build Taipe 101, which at that time became “the new” tallest building in the world.

And then it has been continued until now. County will feel very proud of having own tallest building, may be 10 years later earth will become very high, so airplane can’t fly anymore, hahahahaha…



In Indonesia it self, the government try to establish their pride in the ASEAN’s perspective. Because of that they were planning to build Jakarta Tower.

Actually this tower had been designed many years ago before Asian Crisis in 1997, on the regime of President Soeharto. On that day, Indonesian economics very bad, level of poverty increase sharply, riot every day, those conditions cause pending of Jakarta Tower's development.

Then after Asian Crisis lapse, government sound to continue this project.

Jakarta Tower will be build in area kemayoran, Central Jakarta. (Now is being build)
there will be hotels, Mall, spin Restaurant, digital museum, etc inside.

For Information, this tower's height 558.0 meters.
This is taller that Twin Tower or KL Tower in Malaysia.

it will surpass 3 tallest tower before.

see this picture:

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This project valued about $400 million.

Woooouuuww..!!

Go.. Indonesia..!!!



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Universitas Jendral Soedirman (UNSOED)

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Unsoed is my beloved University.

It was my first university in faculty of economic.
This University is located in Purwokerto, Banyumas Central Java. The center of this campus is placed on jln. H.R Boenyamin.

Pictures below is the front view of the campus.





There are several faculties offered in this university, they are:

1. FACULTY OF ECONOMIC
2. FACULTY OF LAW
3. FACULTY OF SOCIAL POLITICS
4. FACULTY OF BIOLOGY
5. FACULTY OF AGRICULTURAL
6. AND MANY MORE………



Universitas Jendral Soedirman is one of the best universities in Indonesia.
Average colleges there accredited A and B.

UNSOED also has international program for those have plan to go abroad.

International Program Available:

a. International Management
b. International Accounting
c. International Economics growth study


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Those programs recently linked to university in Malaysia, UUM (University Utara Malaysia).
The dean of Faculty of Economics intends to do an approach to University in Thailand and Australia.

Hopefully, this program will run successfully so that this university can compete in the international stages, especially ASEAN region.

*In addition, if you study in UNSOED absolutely your money will be saved because live cost in Purwokerto is very cheap.

Eat Nasi plus Chicken you only spend about Rp. 3000.

May be if you buy the same categorical food in the big cities like Jakarta and Surabaya it will cost about Rp.6000-Rp.7000

Location of Universitas Jendral Soedirman is in the sloping line of Mt. Slamet which is the second tallest mount in Java and the Biggest Mount in Java.

Proud Become Unsoed Students.



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WHY MUST SPEAK ENGLISH??!!

From the first day I’ve been here (in Malaysia) to continue my study, I found many barriers. Any of them is English.

Yes I see, I’ve decided to go abroad so lieu I have to learn English. Huhh..
Honestly, I am not very fluent to speak English, my grammar also very bad in compare to other students.

So, to solve this problem I have to think twice, first I think about the subject I’ve taken and second think about English. This is not a very easy thing to do. I heard many students from Indonesia here failed because they can’t follow what was lecturer teach.

I wish I am not one of them.

I knew in order to communicate with people in an international stage we must speak English.

The problem is, why English?
Why don’t all people in the world speak Bahasa Indonesia?



In bahasa Indonesia everything spell clearly.
For example, a b c d.
In English grammar those words are spell ei, bi, ci, di..
Sunday is pronounced Sandey (Indonesian grammatical), is it not clear, is it?

Ok we take other comparison.

Guten Morgen (means Good Morning) in Germany is read clearly guten morgen. May be if we translate into English it could be pronounced Gaten morgen.

Am I right?

That’s why people don’t like to learn English (although many like). Possibly, this world choice English as their language because of it’s colony all over the world. Many Common Wealth countries mean British empires spread in this world.
Huh.. I am not intends to discredit English.

What ever the reason, I must learn English!!

Help me, please…….


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DOUBLE DEGREE PROGRAM

Anybody know what double degree program is?

May be there is some of you still don’t know yet about this term.
I have been involved to this program until now.

Actually, based on the name “Double Degree Program” this is a program offered to international students to get their “second” degree but this is not a level up from your first degree. You will get your degree double at the same level.

Ok for instance, Budi is an undergraduate student from UK, afterward he joins his University’s program with University in Indonesia to do Double degree. After he graduates from those Universities he will get a Bachelor and S1 (Sarjana) degrees as feedback.
That’s why it called a Double Degree Program.

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Based on my experience, Double Degree program is one of many ways from universities to expand their wings abroad. As we know, this is a globalization era where everything should be very global. So, in this era people having races to do everything globally. Including Universities.

With this program, Universities can increase or add their “value” in eyes of society. So that parents will school their beloved son or daughter in those universities.

HOW ABOUT THE SYSTEM?

Double degree program is a program offered to get a “second” degree with the same level. Meaning that, you can reach two degrees one time in different place overseas.

People thought students will be very long to finish their first degree because we have to study in two places differently.

Yes almost true, but still not get yet.

It is true that students must finished their undergraduate in two places differently but it doesn’t mean spend much time.

Because, double degree means you finish half semester in one university and half semester in another university. In other way the time will you finish off is about 3 or 4 years. Same with only “one degree”, right?

ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES

List of advantages:

• Increase experience
• Get double degree
• Having international friends
• A lot of connection abroad will be
• Strong our English
• Prouder
• Get a girl or boy overseas
• Do business overseas
• Sometime we are profited by Currency
• And so forth.

List of Disadvantages:

• Far from family
• Costly sometime
• Can’t adapt with local place culture
• Face different habitual
• No more native language (if communicate with students from different country)
• Troublesome
• Different style of teaching
• Etc.

COMPARED WITH EXCHANGE PROGRAM

This program is different from exchange program for sure. Exchange program is also one of university’s ways to expand their wings broadly.

Exchange program is a program which is done by only one semester (sometimes more) after that come back home with only got a certificate and useful experiences.
However, if students do double degree they can reach more advantages and also disadvantages than do exchange. I am not to plan to declare that exchange program is not good.
Do exchange is good also but it depends on the people.

Sometimes there is student who doesn’t feel like to stay away from their parents for long time, so they decide to choose exchange program. Or sometimes there is student who doesn’t care about that problem because he/she think of the advantages offered, so they prefer Double degree.
It’s fine.

DOUBLE DEGREE, IS IT FAIR?

I had friend from local, she told me:

“Why can you easily took paper 3000 without through paper 1000 and 2000 (basic paper)? That’s not fair!”

Haha..

What do you think? Did you think the same?

Nothing’s not fair bro!

Everything is fine.

Because we (double degree students) have already took basic paper in our former universities. As I mentioned in advanced, double degree program is done by a half semester in one university vice versa.
So we already through half or more semester in our former university while in our “new” university we just continue our study in order to get double degree.

So, which part isn’t fair? hehe..



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